tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31756992.post6819204446390046743..comments2018-09-09T22:34:25.145-07:00Comments on Eggs Sunny Side Up: Journey of an Egg Donor: eggssunnysideuphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07307035793048142261noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31756992.post-37538421436487839812008-02-16T07:41:00.000-08:002008-02-16T07:41:00.000-08:00I also can't help but wonder if you're talking abo...I also can't help but wonder if you're talking about my blog. You may not be, but if you are... you should know that what happened in my case was that the donor lied. She's 27, and had a low stim, and she lied to her 2nd agency about her previous donation cycle in which she produced 9 eggs (that agency requires a minimum of 10 from previous donors.)<BR/><BR/>She was banned from the 2nd agency she applied to and pulled from their database. So yeah, agencies make mistakes... and some donors lie to get the money. You don't sound like you're in that category, fortunately all of us IPs out there. Yes, the donors are doing incredible good deeds... but we are also putting our emotions, finances, futures and health at risk by working with people we've never met (many of us), and truly, have no real way of assessing as to their honesty. It's scary, but it's what we have to do, and it's the risk we'll take to have a family.<BR/><BR/>I wish you the best of luck in getting matched.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31756992.post-20573474627609640292008-02-13T17:52:00.000-08:002008-02-13T17:52:00.000-08:00Glad to see you posting again! (I have you on my ...Glad to see you posting again! (I have you on my Google Reader, so I don't miss any of your posts.)<BR/><BR/>I'm going to "out" myself and say that I'm the IP you're referring to who found the discrepancies between the profiles. And I want to thank you for commenting on it and giving your opinion. I'm actually glad to hear that you have found differences in your own profiles. I would rather give people the benefit of the doubt and I hope it's something like a clerical or entry error in my case. I have actually mentioned the discrepancy to one of the agencies and it will be interesting to see how they respond. I have also gone back to look at the profiles and one is in the donor's handwriting while the other is a typed entry so there could very well have been mistakes on the agency end. Although it would have had to be several mistakes because the discrepancies were in several places. It hadn't occurred to me, though, that the donors actually have no access to their profiles once they're posted on an agency's database so if there are errors, of course, there would be no way for them to know.<BR/><BR/>That being said, because I'm on the recipient side of things, I tend to look at things just one way and I'm glad you're blogging because it helps me see the other side and what kind of things and hassles the donors might be dealing with.Summerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10462071403127406819noreply@blogger.com